One day one of my friends said something which I never realised earlier.He said he thinks that I am perfect in every way but it is rather a curse to me than a boon as I will rarely find anybody across the line standing with me.He said for this one reason I may suffer a lot emotionally.I laughed at first but later realized that he may be true.It was a unique aspect of seeing at a particular thing.It hurts when somebody hurts you time and again and say a lame sorry for each mistake they did.Well that's life, but is it really impossible to get good people around or may be we only remember the bad ones for the pain and acrimony they injected into our lives.
Forget and forgive is what I believe in and trust me it is really very difficult to believe.Forget the bad experiences and forgive people but everything has a limit.Tolerate everything to a point and after that just make it clear to yourself that even though the person seems to be apologizing he or she should learn a lesson and it is the best time to teach.
Time heals everything and yes it heals bad experiences,so we can just leave everything to the almighty and just do what our heart says.Well is it really that easy to follow your heart,actually not.We all must have experienced a moment when our heart wanted something but the situation turned out to be against our wish.We cant control everything with our heart,rather our heart,our emotions are all controlled by people around us.People who are near to our heart,people who love us,care about us and may be they are the same set of people who knowingly or unknowingly at some point of time hurt us and give us painful memories.So we should better focus on things which are under our control,things which we can achieve without being dependent to anything,be it people,place,emotions or time.
When you find yourself moving ahead in life and getting out of every bad thing that happened to you,then you will realize that you are growing matured with the years.Trapped in the past experiences will only give momentary feelings of happiness or sorrow.So get acquainted with changes ,it will make your life easier and nobody in this world has a predictable life so just stop worrying.Life brings changes for everyone in some way or the other and we should welcome it with great zeal.
Life.........I salute you.
tomi tussi great ho
ReplyDeleteWell said... nice one... and just look at the time (did you really post it at 4:15 AM??)... you must have been very serious on this...
ReplyDeleteWell, apart from the things mentioned above I would like to add one thing...
Getting acquainted with the changes is good... but many times I have felt that I have a CHOICE for things happening in my life... (if I want to make a choice or not is a different story of course...) May be not in all cases but yes in a few I would like to put a fight, give it one good try to get what I want and not take things the way it's thrown at me... This helps me feel that I am still breathing...
However somethings are not in our control... I would like to welcome them just as mentioned by you...
Keep posting!!
hi gaurav....no no it was 4:15 am in US...actually i have my office machine set to US timings for convenience...its..may be around 3:30 pm...hehee...thanks...check out for more... :D
ReplyDelete@ bhavik : thanks pluto.. :D
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Good you assumed you are perfect. It may not be true.lol. Just that your fren do not wish to point out your flaws. If i know guys/men , the flaws will be pointed only after commitment :-)
ReplyDeletePeople are never good or bad. They are the same. Its just whether we like them or no. If you like certain qualities in a person, that person will be good for you. So its all in you and not people. You know right that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
Life keeps changing. Just keep saluting it.good going.
On the writing side, i would give one technical advice that is let there be a flow of thoughts when you change paragraphs. It should be connected.
Hope you take the criticism positively.
@ Kapil : hey thanks for reading.It was a naive approach,will try to meet your expectations..
ReplyDeleteand yes...offcourse...being human m very much imperfect...it was just seeing things with others perspective.. :)